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Maybe every conversation turns into an argument. Maybe you’re living like roommates instead of partners. Maybe trust has been broken and you’re unsure if your relationship can recover.

Many couples wait until years of frustration, resentment, and emotional distance have built up before seeking help. Couples counseling creates space to slow down, understand what’s really happening beneath the conflict, and begin rebuilding your relationship

Chris works with couples throughout Bloomfield Hills, Birmingham, and West Bloomfield Township who want healthier communication, stronger emotional connection, and real solutions.

If you have questions for Chris, please fillo ut the contact form, and he will get back to you. Thanks!

Address:
39400 Woodward Avenue,
Suite 187
Bloomfield Hills, Michigan 48304

Phone:
(313) 500-9791

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    Small Problems Become Bigger When
    They’re Left Unresolved

    Most relationships don’t collapse because of one major event.

    They slowly deteriorate through repeated unresolved issues:

    • poor communication
    • resentment
    • lack of intimacy
    • constant criticism
    • feeling unheard
    • parenting stress
    • career pressure
    • trust issues

    Many couples begin feeling emotionally exhausted because they keep having the same fights without finding real resolution.

    Over time, silence can become just as damaging as conflict.

    Telehealth and
    Onsite Services

    Christopher understands that you have beyond busy schedules and that making it to his office may not be realistic. Christopher offers telehealth (video conference) services using HIPAA compliant platforms. For an additional fee, Christopher will come to your office, home, or other designated location if you do not have access to technology and your schedule will not allow for a visit to his office.

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    Healing After Betrayal, Infidelity, and
    broken trust

    One of the most painful challenges couples face is rebuilding trust after betrayal.

    This may involve:

    • infidelity
    • emotional affairs
    • dishonesty
    • financial secrecy
    • broken boundaries

    After trust is broken, many couples feel trapped between wanting to repair the relationship and feeling uncertain about whether healing is possible.

    Chris helps couples navigate those difficult conversations while creating clarity around whether reconciliation is possible and what rebuilding trust realistically requires.

    real results from people like you

    I tried several different counselors, but they all told me it was going to take weeks and months to work through my issues. As a high-level executive, I did not have time for weeks upon weeks of appointments and sessions due to my hectic schedule. Chris had me moving forward in the right direction in just six sessions.

    -Steven

    After an infidelity in our over 10-year marriage, I was not sure that the two of us were going to make it. Chris was able to give a guide and show us that there would be a glimmer of hope for our marriage if the two of us were willing to put the work in together.

    -Miss Thomas

    After 45 years of marriage, what counseling was going to solve. I was completely against attending counseling with my wife. She forced me to go, and I am so glad that she did. Chris provided me with hope for the first time in a very long time that our marriage was worth saving.

    -Rickey

    I have been seeing a therapist on and off for over a decade. All of them were women. I decided to try a man, and it was the best decision that I have made in a very long time. Chris was direct, upfront, and didn’t sugar coat anything with me and showed me the type of woman that I can be and should be. His direct approach is refreshing and may have saved my life.

    -Karen

    My boss told me that I needed to come and see Chris. I was struggling at the office and my sales were significantly off. Chris helped me work through my mental blocks and provided me with the tools to succeed not only at my job, but in my marriage and in the relationship, I have with my parents, especially my father.

    -Kyle

    I have been struggling for over 20 years with my porn addiction. It has affected my job, my marriage and my relationships with others. I have been to countless therapists over the years, but it wasn’t until I found Chris that I was able to have a breakthrough and get my addiction under control. Chris’ method is direct and allowed me to identify why I have the addiction and the steps that I needed to take to get my life back under control.

    -Robby

    I hired Chris to come in and solve our high churn rate and lagging sales. Chris spent just over 30 days at our facilities around the country evaluating our company’s culture, business processes and overall efficiency within our sales team and management. When Chris was done, our sale process was streamlined, our sales team was positive for the first time in a long time, and we were seeing the highest revenue that we have seen in over 11 quarters.

    -John

    Chris’ sales training is worth it. I have been a part of countless sales training courses over my career and his methods are completely different. He approaches the sales process using his counseling and psychology background to connect with the attending individuals. My team always asks when we are going to have Chris back to speak.

    -Erin

    I have never seen someone negotiate a contract like Chris. We brought Chris in to help us with a tough contract negotiation with a large client. Chris was able to immediately build rapport with the client, provide the client with value and held firm during the negotiation process. In the end, Chris allowed us to sign a contract with the largest margins in company history for this type of business.

    -Glen

    When my employees need help, I send them to Chris. I know that we will be able to work with them to get them through any issues and concerns that they are having, whether it is with work or in their home lives. When they come back from seeing Chris, they are more productive and more productive.

    -Erik

    Chris finally convinced to me allow him to come into our office once a week to provide my staff with someone to talk to if they needed to. Who knew that his weekly visits would be something that my staff looks forward to. Chris can work with teams, individuals and more to solve relationship problems, communication issues and personal conflicts as an outside third party that everyone respects and enjoys working with.

    -Robert

    I have been in business for over 50 years and worked with some of the most influential people in the business world and in our industry. Chris’ integrity and ability to deliver on his promises isn’t something that you see every day. If Chris says he’s going to do it and get it done, he will. His understanding of business and how to get the best out of people makes him an invaluable asset to any company, no matter what the industry.

    -Jim

    Chris was brought into a hostile environment and a company that was facing turmoil and possible bankruptcy. His ability to lead the team and get everyone aligned to a common goal in a very short time gave us the confidence to know that we were going to make it through the point in time and come out successful on the other end. He was also to negotiate our debt for pennies on the dollar, which gave us a good financial position as we worked through unforeseen circumstances.

    -Chuck

    How Stress, Success, and Ambition
    Affect Marriage

    Many couples in Bloomfield Hills and nearby communities are balancing demanding careers, parenting responsibilities, and high expectations.

    • Long work hours
    • travel schedules
    • financial stress
    • leadership pressure
    • burnout

    These pressures often create emotional distance between partners.

    The goal is to help both partners feel heard, respected, emotionally safe, and connected again.

    For many couples in Birmingham, and West Bloomfield Township, counseling becomes the turning point that helps them move from surviving their relationship to actively rebuilding it.

    Don’t Wait Until Disconnection
    Becomes Permanent

    Most couples wait far too long before asking for help. By the time they reach counseling, resentment has built up, communication has broken down, and both partners feel emotionally exhausted.

    The sooner you address conflict, trust issues, or emotional distance, the easier it becomes to rebuild a healthier relationship.

    Take the first step toward stronger communication and deeper connection.

    Schedule your private consultation with Chris today

    A Practical Approach to
    Relationship Growth

    Chris combines counseling experience, coaching expertise, and business leadership experience to help couples address both emotional challenges and practical life stressors.

    His approach focuses on:

    • identifying destructive patterns
    • improving communication
    • creating accountability
    • building healthier relationship habits

    Couples leave sessions with actionable strategies they can apply in real life.

    Many couples in Bloomfield Hills, Birmingham, and West Bloomfield Township are balancing demanding careers, family responsibilities, and constant pressure.

    Success at work should not come at the expense of your marriage.

    Work with Chris to strengthen communication, rebuild trust, and create a healthier partnership.

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