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Rules To Fighting
Every strong relationship is going to have arguments from time to time. Some say it is even healthy to argue from time to time. That’s ok and that is not the issue. The issue is whether you can have arguments that are constructive, handled respectfully and that each partner fights fair. Now, I know that…
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Once A Cheater, Always a Cheater
Couples ask me all the time, is it true that once a cheater is always a cheater? That is truly a hard question to answer. Some researchers say absolutely, but I am a believer in change and hope. When someone comes to me, I believe that they can change and I have the hope that…
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No One Wants To Work
One of the biggest topics of discussion that I am having with clients is that they cannot find good people or that no one wants to work. Many of my clients’ state that they cannot fill the positions needed at their facilities and if it forcing current employees to work additional hours and burn out…
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Make Time For The Relationship
One of the first questions that I ask couples when they come into my office is “when was your last date night? When was the last time just the two of you took time for the relationship?” I am sure you can imagine the facial expressions that I see or get. Life gets busy and…
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Is SFBT Better Than Other Theraputic Methods
Clients ask all the time why I choose to use Solution Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) instead of some of the other therapeutic methods that seem to be widely used in the counseling profession. The main reason that I was drawn to SFBT is that it fits my personality and the way that I live my…
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