After speaking with several of my clients, I have concluded that beautiful women may have it the hardest in the dating world today. OK, listen to me on this one and let me know if you agree. Beautiful women have become weary in their search for their partner because of all the men out there that think they can buy their love and buy the things that they want. Beautiful women have men of all ages throwing money at them all the time and offering to take them on vacation to wherever they want to go. In the long run, beautiful women just want someone who will listen to them and want to spend time with them for who they are and not what they look like.
Beautiful women have men offering all the time to leave their lives or to cheat on their wives with them. Beautiful women are becoming cynical as they think if I get into a relationship with any man, he is going to leave me for another woman or cheat on me behind my back. They are starting to think that this is how all men think and act. The offers that they receive on a regular basis are fun if that is what you are looking for, but when you want more, when you want a family and want to settle down, the only men that they have been approached by are the ones who live double lives or have standards that they do not want in their man.
I also think that good women in general have it harder in the dating world then anyone else. A good woman is not going to be on Only Fans. She is not going to be influenced by a man’s money. Men don’t want to put up with the standards that a good woman sets and they will settle for the immoral woman as they can control her, and she won’t voice her opinion because she wants the next new purse or another vacation to somewhere in Europe. An immoral woman will be rewarded for her actions while a good woman will be looked down upon by men.
The good woman is not willing to sacrifice her self-respect for a relationship. She wants a good relationship with a partner who has set healthy boundaries and who can accept her for who she is. A good woman knows her worth and will never settle for less or want to be a status symbol.
Now, on the flip side, a good man who is going into a relationship with good intentions and doesn’t think that women are playing all these games doesn’t want to be toxic. They want to be relaxed when they are in a relationship because when they are outside the home, they must deal with stressful high-power jobs and positions. When they come home, they want respect, and they want to give respect back. When they have to set too many boundaries or be controlling, they think they are being mean and ultimately will end d being miss treated by the toxic partner.
A high achieving man wants and is seeking someone with intelligence and intellect. They may not be looking for a CEO, but they are looking for something deeper than just looks and beauty. They need the brains as well. A high achieving man has more to offer than his money. His identity is not his money.
A man whose entire identity is his money is ok with a woman who might be disrespectful. He allows this because of her looks and that she does not need to bring much to the relationship other than her appearance. A man who has more to offer than his money will look for a woman who has far more to offer than her appearance. This high achieving man wants intimacy and wants to have a conversation.
Dating is not easy no matter if you are a man or a woman. There are two many distractions in dating today and do not allow the good woman to be seen and for the high achieving man not to be taken advantage of because of what he is and not who he is.
