Couples | Life Coaching | Chris Kourtakis

How Many Red Flags Are Too Many Red Flags

Posted on October 20, 2025 (October 20, 2025) by JastMedia

Whether you are just getting into a relationship or have been in one for twenty years, things change, and “red flags” can appear. The question is what do you consider a red flag and how many reg flags is to many red flags? Are red flags truly deal breakers and what flags you may ignore […]

Never Date Or Marry Their Potential

Posted on October 13, 2025 (October 13, 2025) by JastMedia

Oh, the possibilities. Oh, the potential that they could be. Potential can be a very dangerous thing. Potential can give someone more power than they may deserve. Now I’m not saying that you should not consider someone’s potential and be their biggest cheerleader while they reach their highest potential. I am stating the importance of […]

Break Ups Suck, But You Will Survive

Posted on October 6, 2025 (October 6, 2025) by JastMedia

We have all been there. We have all had to go through it at one point or another. Some of us handle the situations differently and there is no right or wrong way to deal with it, but it can and will disrupt your daily life if you are not careful. Clients come to me […]

Put Yourself Out There and Watch The Magic Happen

Posted on September 22, 2025 (September 22, 2025) by JastMedia

Over the past couples of weeks, I have taken on individuals as new clients who felt stuck or felt like they were going to “disappear” from their current lives or situations. A couple of them are going through divorces and feel that their friends will choose sides. Others feel like they are about to lose […]

Quickest Path to Divorce: The One Key Indicator

Posted on September 10, 2025 (September 10, 2025) by JastMedia

People and couples ask me all the time what are some of the things that I see in my sessions that are key indicators that couples will get divorced or that this one thing will lead to the relationship breaking up. Is there a magic indicator? I am sure there is, and I am sure […]

Let’s Talk About Sex

Posted on September 1, 2025 (September 1, 2025) by JastMedia

Are you good at sex? Do you know what your partner likes and dislikes? Are you open and honest with your partner when it comes to activities in the bedroom? Are you getting your needs satisfied and does your partner know what those needs are? I work with couples all the time that are not […]

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Are You Truly Healed From Past Relationships

Posted on March 5, 2025 (March 5, 2025) by JastMedia

One of my clients is in love. He wants to propose to his now girlfriend. Now, I know this sounds amazing, but the issue is that she does not bring him peace. She is not his safe space or quietness when he gets home from a long day at the office. As we talk more […]

How To Treat a Man and a Woman

Posted on February 24, 2025 (February 24, 2025) by JastMedia

For over the past several decades generations have preached how a man should treat a woman and how a woman should expect a man to treat her. For generations mothers have taught their daughters what they should expect from a man. For generations fathers have taught their sons how to treat a lady. I am […]

Fear of Rejection

Posted on February 17, 2025 (February 17, 2025) by JastMedia

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Rejection is NOT a bad thing! Rejection is a form of protection. As high-powered individuals, we are not used to being rejected. Whether it is in the board room or in the dating world, rejection is not something that we are familiar with. Look, no one likes rejection. But, if you look at it from […]

Relationships can be boring

Posted on February 12, 2025 (February 24, 2025) by JastMedia

One of the best pieces of advice that I can give my couples is that at some point in their relationship, the relationship will become boring. The relationship will become monogamous. Jobs, kids, other activities will get in the way and the mondain routines of life will make the relationship feel stuck or boring. Don’t […]